When You Tolerate the Intolerable You End Up Like Mrs. Tamerlan Tzarnaev

She's both widow and metaphor:

The story of Katherine Russell is the story of Europe and America. It’s the story of what happens when you tolerate and tolerate until you’re wearing a Hijab and a black eye and your husband roams the streets murdering your friends and neighbors in the name of the religion you accepted even though you don’t really understand it.