She sees herself in them?
Let's review: she's the highly privileged wife of the leader of the free world who currently resides en famille in the White House. They (the behijabed girls) are not free--no, not in any way--and go to school in Tower Hamlets, a part of Londonistan that looks more to totalitarian sharia than to Western legal traditions going back to the Magna Carta.
She is not them. They are not her.
End of story.